Be Your Own Cheerleader!
I couldn't make a breakfast that they liked. I had to put the Nerf guns on the highest garage shelf because I caught my 9 year old climbing out a window to go play when he had been told to brush his teeth. That simple task always gets a response of arguing and complaining. What I hear from my kids' reactions is "I am the worst mom ever for making them eat breakfast, brush their teeth, take periodic showers, and stop waking the neighbors up by bouncing basketballs at 6 a.m." It is easy for me to believe their opinions are true. In those moments I can't laugh. Their discontent towards me by not reading their minds and meeting all their expectations has me convinced I am terrible at this mom role. With very little time for self-reflection it is easy to believe the external voices that speak more loudly than our own internal voice. A friend and I compared our grocery budgets and how many meals we cook a day. I left the conversation feeling as if I was missing out and